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Stay Focused, Stay Winning

March 13, 20253 min read

Stay Focused, Stay Winning: Mindset Tips for Success.

Originally published on LinkedIn

Staying motivated isn’t always easy, but staying focused means staying winning. Let’s be real—life gets hectic. Between work, family, and everything else on the to-do list, some days feel unstoppable, and other days, it’s tempting to just curl up on the couch and do nothing. And that’s okay!

But here’s the truth: motivation isn’t just something we wake up with—it’s something we create. No one feels motivated all the time, but there are ways to stay focused and keep pushing forward.

If you've been feeling stuck or unmotivated lately, here are a few strategies to help keep the momentum going.

1. Set Small, Achievable Goals

A Black woman wearing a teal headwrap and white blouse arranges photos on a vision board in a bright, cozy room with plants.

A woman in a headwrap creates a vision board.

Big dreams are exciting, but they can also feel overwhelming. Breaking things down into one step at a time makes real progress possible. Every small win matters, and celebrating those little victories keeps the motivation alive.

Instead of focusing on how far there is to go, try setting micro-goals—things that can be accomplished within a day or a week. Completing these smaller tasks builds confidence and makes big goals feel more manageable. Progress isn’t about speed; it’s about consistency. There’s no need to have it all figured out at once. Just keep moving forward.

2. Protect Your Energy

A Black woman in red plaid pajamas relaxes at her desk, sipping wine with her feet up, while looking at her computer screen.

A woman in plaid pajamas sips wine at her desk.

Energy is valuable, and it’s important to be intentional about what (and who) gets access to it. If something or someone is draining, set boundaries. If it’s uplifting, make space for it.

This can mean limiting time with negativity, reducing social media consumption, or saying no to things that don’t align with personal goals. Protecting energy also means investing in self-care—getting enough rest, eating nourishing foods, and doing things that bring joy. Pay attention to what fuels inspiration and what creates stress—then adjust accordingly.

3. Create Daily Rituals That Keep You Grounded

A Black woman with curly hair jumps rope in a room filled with green plants, wearing black workout clothes and white sneakers.

A woman in black workout clothes jumps rope indoors.

Some days, motivation comes naturally. Other days, it has to be created. That’s why simple daily rituals—like morning affirmations, journaling, or even just five minutes of quiet time with coffee or tea—can make a difference.

Rituals create structure, which helps build discipline even when motivation fades. Whether it’s exercising, reading, meditating, or setting daily intentions, having a consistent routine can shift the mindset from feeling stuck to feeling empowered. The key is to find a practice that feels good and make it a non-negotiable part of the day.

4. Remember Your “Why”

A Black woman in a black satin robe sits on a yellow couch, focused on writing in a notebook with a pen, with a laptop open in the background.

A focused woman writes in a notebook on the couch.

Whenever giving up feels like an option, it helps to remember why the journey started in the first place. Whether it’s about building a better future, supporting loved ones, or simply proving to yourself that you can do it—your "why" is powerful.

Write it down. Say it out loud. Keep reminders in visible places—a sticky note on the mirror, a screensaver on your phone, or a page in a journal.

The stronger your connection to the purpose behind the goal, the easier it is to push through challenges. When things get tough, come back to that purpose. Let it be a reminder of the bigger picture.

And If No One Told You Today—You’ve Got This.

The journey isn’t always smooth, but the key is to keep showing up. Stay committed to growth, trust the process, and remember that success is built through persistence.

Black women professionalsStay focusedWinning mindsetPersonal growthSelf-improvementGoal settingset boundaries and find peace
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'Tine Zekis

Christine ('Tine) Zekis is an educator turned software engineer, international speaker, and bestselling author of "Overcoming Imposter Syndrome at Work: The Black Woman's Guide to Conquer Perfectionism, Stop Overthinking & Thrive in Your Career." She is the Founder and CEO of Getting Black Women Paid, which empowers Black women professionals to accelerate their careers and soar past the six-figure mark. 'Tine is a sought-after speaker on panels and at tech conferences where she discusses salary negotiation, career changers, imposter syndrome, and Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging in the industry.

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A Black woman with short curly hair looks at herself in the mirror at a gym, standing near a "Believe in Yourself" sign.

Stay Focused, Stay Winning

March 13, 20253 min read

Stay Focused, Stay Winning: Mindset Tips for Success.

Originally published on LinkedIn

Staying motivated isn’t always easy, but staying focused means staying winning. Let’s be real—life gets hectic. Between work, family, and everything else on the to-do list, some days feel unstoppable, and other days, it’s tempting to just curl up on the couch and do nothing. And that’s okay!

But here’s the truth: motivation isn’t just something we wake up with—it’s something we create. No one feels motivated all the time, but there are ways to stay focused and keep pushing forward.

If you've been feeling stuck or unmotivated lately, here are a few strategies to help keep the momentum going.

1. Set Small, Achievable Goals

A Black woman wearing a teal headwrap and white blouse arranges photos on a vision board in a bright, cozy room with plants.

A woman in a headwrap creates a vision board.

Big dreams are exciting, but they can also feel overwhelming. Breaking things down into one step at a time makes real progress possible. Every small win matters, and celebrating those little victories keeps the motivation alive.

Instead of focusing on how far there is to go, try setting micro-goals—things that can be accomplished within a day or a week. Completing these smaller tasks builds confidence and makes big goals feel more manageable. Progress isn’t about speed; it’s about consistency. There’s no need to have it all figured out at once. Just keep moving forward.

2. Protect Your Energy

A Black woman in red plaid pajamas relaxes at her desk, sipping wine with her feet up, while looking at her computer screen.

A woman in plaid pajamas sips wine at her desk.

Energy is valuable, and it’s important to be intentional about what (and who) gets access to it. If something or someone is draining, set boundaries. If it’s uplifting, make space for it.

This can mean limiting time with negativity, reducing social media consumption, or saying no to things that don’t align with personal goals. Protecting energy also means investing in self-care—getting enough rest, eating nourishing foods, and doing things that bring joy. Pay attention to what fuels inspiration and what creates stress—then adjust accordingly.

3. Create Daily Rituals That Keep You Grounded

A Black woman with curly hair jumps rope in a room filled with green plants, wearing black workout clothes and white sneakers.

A woman in black workout clothes jumps rope indoors.

Some days, motivation comes naturally. Other days, it has to be created. That’s why simple daily rituals—like morning affirmations, journaling, or even just five minutes of quiet time with coffee or tea—can make a difference.

Rituals create structure, which helps build discipline even when motivation fades. Whether it’s exercising, reading, meditating, or setting daily intentions, having a consistent routine can shift the mindset from feeling stuck to feeling empowered. The key is to find a practice that feels good and make it a non-negotiable part of the day.

4. Remember Your “Why”

A Black woman in a black satin robe sits on a yellow couch, focused on writing in a notebook with a pen, with a laptop open in the background.

A focused woman writes in a notebook on the couch.

Whenever giving up feels like an option, it helps to remember why the journey started in the first place. Whether it’s about building a better future, supporting loved ones, or simply proving to yourself that you can do it—your "why" is powerful.

Write it down. Say it out loud. Keep reminders in visible places—a sticky note on the mirror, a screensaver on your phone, or a page in a journal.

The stronger your connection to the purpose behind the goal, the easier it is to push through challenges. When things get tough, come back to that purpose. Let it be a reminder of the bigger picture.

And If No One Told You Today—You’ve Got This.

The journey isn’t always smooth, but the key is to keep showing up. Stay committed to growth, trust the process, and remember that success is built through persistence.

Black women professionalsStay focusedWinning mindsetPersonal growthSelf-improvementGoal settingset boundaries and find peace
blog author image

'Tine Zekis

Christine ('Tine) Zekis is an educator turned software engineer, international speaker, and bestselling author of "Overcoming Imposter Syndrome at Work: The Black Woman's Guide to Conquer Perfectionism, Stop Overthinking & Thrive in Your Career." She is the Founder and CEO of Getting Black Women Paid, which empowers Black women professionals to accelerate their careers and soar past the six-figure mark. 'Tine is a sought-after speaker on panels and at tech conferences where she discusses salary negotiation, career changers, imposter syndrome, and Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging in the industry.

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